正文 第78章 被父母绑架的小家庭

    父母爱孩子本无可厚非,但象这样以爱的名义,“绑架”孩子成年后组建的小家庭，却是不可取的。父母爱得偏执，爱得强势，不管不顾孩子配偶的感受，这样的爱，可能最终会害了自己的孩子。所有的付出，不仅得不到尊重，得不到感激，反而为孩子甚至下一代人为设置了亲情鸿沟。如果这些爱子心切的父母能真正认识到这一点，放手成年的孩子，那个小家庭才有可能健康美满。呵呵！这位70后仁兄的悲惨生活写照，在80后、90后身上更普遍一些。这位声称关在“鸟笼”的男人，虽然承受着失去自由的痛苦，却不要忘记了当年羽翼未丰时，也曾享受过不必去四处觅食，不曾经受过风吹雨打的幸福。所以感恩自己的丈母娘，比诅咒更应该些！一个见面三天就向你借钱、从不主动约会不主动打电话发短信、面对你计划多时的隆重生日聚会，轻飘飘地回绝的男人，确实不象一个负责任的男人，更不象恋爱中的男人。所有无情都是显而易见的，所有深情都是你一厢情愿假设出來的，这样极品男人，如果不是碰上你这样的无敌女人,早就相忘江湖，各奔东西了。能接业务电话到手软的，显然是一个热情的人；为朋友取消女友约会的，显然是一个仗义的人；能与朋友乐呵呵地打麻将的，显然是一个豁达的人……可惜所有好脾气好品质，都不是针对自己的正牌女友。可悲的女人呀，难道还需要用践踏自尊的底线來证明一点嘛：此君非无情，只是对你沒用情！--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------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